Monday, 7 December 2015

Tapan Vaidya: As I know him: Part 1

He has dropped his body, but he has influenced our minds to work for Guruji’s vision. I can feel him guiding me just closing my eyes and thinking what bhaiya will do if he was at my place. This is the synopsis of some intimate moments with my dearest Tapan bhaiya. Last 8 years, I have  spent minimum few moments with him either through phone, chat, in person or just remembering his presence, every day, without fail.
 

Tapan Vaidya @Mumbai
 
The Mind blowing answer: Bhaiya had got a major surgery at Breach candy. I was lucky to take him for a walk. I asked, how do you feel Bhaiya, ”He said, this life time I am doing Guruji’s work, other life I will continue doing the same. Riddhi Bhabhi later added, the doctor was amused looking at Tapan’s smile, he asked him what do you do and Tapan bhaiya gave him a talk about AOL while in Operation theatre and told me that he is going to do the program.
 

Most proud moment: I was proud to introduce him. It was a paid talk. When Tapan Vaidya graced at Microsoft for a Lifestyle talk to all my colleagues. That talk changed their perspective about Vishnu and suddenly they started appreciating me.
 

Grateful moments: There are lakhs, but the one , when I called Bhaiya just becoming AOL teacher, I can sense, he and Bhabhi were exponentially happy and proud for me. I was super-duper fortunate to have him on the last day of my first and second YES+ program.

 

My first Yes!+ program
 
Most funny moment: My email id srivishnuji@gmail.com. My earlier email id was vishnu4u1986@gmail.com which talks about my DOB and belongingness. While I was submitting my TTC application, I thought I will be doing Sri Sri Ravi Shankar’s work, so add somewhere Sri in my new email id, I was fantasizing, I checked vishnuji, srivishnu which were already occupied, then I looked for srivishnuji and Aho, I got it. In 10 minutes, Bhaiya calls and addresses me SriVishnuJi, I have received your application. “Tu to abhi teacher bhi nahi bana aur ye Sri, Ji business started”. We had a great laugh.
 

When I met first:  Hyderabad, Madhapur petrol pump, 9th Jan ,2008, 3:30 pm Bhaiya was taking a course at Tarun’s college. I was his travelling volunteer as we had to start at 3:30 pm. He first time took me to Basil( a veg affair). He gave me all the freedom, the way I was. Told me if you want, you can drink the lemon water(served at end).

The famous litchi malai
 

What he gifted me:  Riddhi Bhabhi. I was little insecure that we don’t get much time with bhaiya post his marriage, Infact Poornima shit scared me. Riddhi Bhabhi was other way round, she is our darling. I had been lucky to teach around 10-12 programs with her.

Rab ne bana di jodi
 

The Yoga Master of Hyderabad: Tapan bhaiya has always created leaders. He saw the spark in me to connect with youths and every program, by default I was his choice for warm-ups. I remember, we go until 54 surya namaskars some times in a duration of 30 minutes.
 

Yoga sessions
No of scolds I got: 3-4, my other peers have got in plenty and they can write a book on it.

 

Most intimate moment: Recently massaging his feet in ashram and chanting GuruPooja in my mind. Next day we had an exclusive appointment with Gurudeva. Guruji spent 10 minutes with us.
 

Best travel place: Maharashtra , we were chasing Guruji, we stayed in the same hotel where Guruji stayed. I remember, he had a great laugh, when I ran behind Gurudev with my brush and tongue cleaner. While returning, he drove all of us back as the driver was sleepy. We were amazed at his control of senses.
 

Best food: I used to cook Khichdi for Bhaiya and he used to cook dosa for me(when Bhabhi was not there). 
Khichdi
 

The 38 mantra: His all 38 size kurtas were actually mine.
 

My favorite time pass: Nice massage to Tapan bhaiya.
 

What I really missed: His marriage in Baroda.
 

Most grateful moment: He called me 2 am in morning for uncle’s hospital admission. I was there in hospital for 2 days. I was extremely lucky that he choose me.
 

Most humble moment: When I shared him that I am going for Gurupooja, He said, Awesome, you come back and bless us.
GuruPooja
 
 
 
Part 2 will have the mug story, the Trayambakam cycle, the Ashtavakra Gita, The Apollo mystery, being a senior volunteer, being with Vishnu’s Vaishnavi and many more.

 

 

 

 

27 comments:

Unknown said...

Bhaiya its inspiring, I feel something from inside the urge to be like Bhaiya .. Thank you very much for sharing this with us.. Waiting for part 2

Darshan's blog said...

So nice to read about Tapan Bhaiya!

Swapnil Sahoo said...

I am getting nostalgic as I am reading this. I remember going to Tapan Bhaiya's home early in the morning for our Asthavakra Geeta sessions. I woudl always be greatfull for this. please bless me.

Krishna Reddy said...
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Krishna Reddy said...

Beautiful! :)
Tapn, May your noble soul rest in peace..

h h s s said...

Beautiful Vishnu

Ram said...

Very nice and touching Vishnuji. Jai Gurudev!

ambrish said...

Thank you Vishnuji. This is beautiful!

DINESH'S DENTAL PARADISE said...

Thanks for sharing your precious moments with him. He will always remain a source of inspiration for all of us in years to come.

DINESH'S DENTAL PARADISE said...

Thanks once again Vishnuji

Unknown said...

Vishnuji this blog has given descriptions of two great individuals... Tapan Bhaiya.. who has left the physical body..May God bless his soul to rest in peace!

and Vishnuji who I knew more now.. Two wonderful individuals.. May God bless Vishnuji with happiness always and great seva opportunities serving the needy!

Naval said...

Thank you Vishnu. You are very lucky to spent so much time with the great soul. Jgd.

h h s s said...

Beautiful Vishnu

Unknown said...

Thanks for sharing so many moments of yours with Tapanji (I am his colleague) whom I have known since 2006. These moments are amazing, I was aware of him as AOL teacher but didn't realize that he was so deeply involved. Wow, what a personality!! We will miss him a lot, his smile, his talk, his humbleness, his polite arguments, his financial talk etc...Guess God was missing him too...

Unknown said...

Inspiring . Thanks Vishnuji for sharing .
May God bless his soul to rest in peace .

Unknown said...

Vishnuji every time I read your posts I am amazed at your creativity and genuiness Ps continue and keep up the inspiring work.
Jaigurudev

Unknown said...

This is my comment. Jaigurudev Malathi

Sameer Kaushik Mamillapalli said...

I just can't forget his smiling face. It has been a long time since I met him, long back in 2008, but I still can't forget the smile on his face. May God bless this great human soul and give strength to his family. We miss you dear Tapan!

Unknown said...

i know him through vishnu. whenever i used to meet tapan bhayya, he used to smile at me and in that smile i see belongingness with him.

Niveditha Samudrala said...

Thank u for sharing SriVishnuji. Waiting for Part 2

Ganga Sharma said...

Dear Vishnu,
I did my Yes Plus TTC 21 Days in July 2008. First time the 21 day format introduced by Bau. Tapan was the Teacher who was asking some of us the Shloka from Gita. He looked at me & I said: "Yada Yada hee Dharmasaya...

Is this the only Shloka everybody knows... I've been hearing this since morning!!
Full form of VVMVP.. I tentatively stated... Ved Vignan..
He nodded.. right.. Where's the Confidence?
Of course it was the 1st day of TTC..

Jai Gurudev..

Haripriya said...

Vishnu bhaiyya thank you for sharing your priceless moments with Tapan bhaiyya.I was always in awe of this energetic,calm,sweet smiling multi-talented youngster Tapan bhaiyya.Missed out on many opportunities to do a YES+ program under Tapan bhaiyya.He had once answered my question regarding age bar for YES+.You know what he said...If you feel you belong to the specified age group you are welcome to do the course and then he gave one of his sweeeet smiles.

Haripriya said...

Vishnu bhaiyya thank you for sharing your priceless moments with Tapan bhaiyya.I was always in awe of this energetic,calm,sweet smiling multi-talented youngster Tapan bhaiyya.Missed out on many opportunities to do a YES+ program under Tapan bhaiyya.He had once answered my question regarding age bar for YES+.You know what he said...If you feel you belong to the specified age group you are welcome to do the course and then he gave one of his sweeeet smiles.

Haripriya said...

Vishnu bhaiyya thank you for sharing your priceless moments with Tapan bhaiyya.I was always in awe of this energetic,calm,sweet smiling multi-talented youngster Tapan bhaiyya.Missed out on many opportunities to do a YES+ program under Tapan bhaiyya.He had once answered my question regarding age bar for YES+.You know what he said...If you feel you belong to the specified age group you are welcome to do the course and then he gave one of his sweeeet smiles.

Unknown said...

I feel a sense of connection with ur blog about bhaiya...I feel d loss though i have never met him before... Hope his lovely journey continues n he comes back somewhere again n I get a chance to meet him. Thanks Sri vishu ji :-) stay blessed

priyanka said...

I feel a very strong connection with bhaiya after reading your blog about bhaiya!
I feel the great loss though I have never got an opportunity to meet Tapan Bhaiya in this life time. I wish and pray to Guruji to meet him somewhere. He is a beautiful divine Soul who will continue to inspire many.
Tapan Bhaiya, though I never met you but when I read all these inspiring stories written by Srivishnuji, It is evident that you have lived all the knowledge points in your every breath. It really amazes me to see the amount of work, number of people`s life you have touched in such a small span of life. Seva despite your devastating health condition and the gentleness with which you fought your illness is inspiration us.
We know you are peaceful and the other world is celebrating your arrival.

Thanks Sri Vishnuji for sharing priceless moments!
You are truly blessed and stay blessed :-)

santosh sharma said...

I know Tapan Bhaiya as I was his room mate from year 2006 to 2009 and we were living in house in Jubilee hills.
He was highly dedicated to AOL. When AOL course used to happen, he used to leave around 6AM and came back around 11PM and in between he used to attend his Xylinx office.
I have met you Vishnuji. Once you came to our house in jubliee hills when you came to hyderabad first time.